Couples expense split calculator

Should you split 50/50 or by income? Enter both take-home pays and your shared costs to see each partner's share, how much of their pay it takes, and what's left over.

1. Partners

    2. Shared monthly costs

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      How the proportional split works

      Each partner's share = shared costs × their income ÷ combined income. Both partners then spend the same percentage of their pay on shared costs, instead of the same dollar amount.

      Example: take-home pay of $6,000 and $4,000 (60/40). Shared costs of $3,070 split as $1,842 and $1,228, which is 30.7% of each partner's pay. A 50/50 split would be $1,535 each: 25.6% of one paycheck and 38.4% of the other.

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      Frequently asked questions

      Should couples use gross or take-home pay?

      Take-home pay is usually fairer, because it's the money you actually have to spend. Gross pay works too, as long as you both use the same kind of number.

      What if one partner has no income?

      A pure income split would put 100% of costs on the earner. Many couples agree on a custom ratio instead, which accounts for unpaid work like childcare or study.

      Is proportional splitting better than 50/50?

      It's more equitable when incomes differ a lot, because both partners keep a similar share of their pay. 50/50 is simpler and works well when incomes are close.

      Which costs should be shared?

      Most couples share rent or a mortgage, utilities, groceries and household supplies. Personal spending such as hobbies, clothes and gifts usually stays separate.